Times of crisis can result in an increase in incidents of domestic
violence, and Christmas and the holiday period may be a time of
dread, fear and isolation for victims of violence and abuse. While
Covid-19 and restrictions have not caused domestic abuse to happen,
evidence shows that being shut behind closed doors with abusers, 24
hours a day, has made things worse, and increased the risk to
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Times of crisis can result in an increase in incidents of
domestic violence, and Christmas and the holiday period may
be a time of dread, fear and isolation for victims of
violence and abuse.
While Covid-19 and restrictions have not caused domestic
abuse to happen, evidence shows that being shut behind closed
doors with abusers, 24 hours a day, has made things worse,
and increased the risk to victims and survivors of domestic
abuse and sexual violence.
The Deputy Minister and Chief Whip, , today asked friends and neighbours to look out for
signs of domestic abuse, and encouraged victims and survivors
to seek help and escape from their homes if necessary.
said:
“Now, more than ever, I urge communities, friends,
neighbours, postal workers and delivery drivers across
Wales to look out for others in the community, and to act
as the eyes and ears for victims of abuse who need help.
Please look behind the Christmas lights and present
deliveries, and if you see fear in the eyes the other side
of the door, you can help by calling 999 in an emergency,
or the Live Fear Free helpline. You could be saving a life.
“Specialist services remain open and are available to help
victims of violence or abuse throughout the Christmas
period, and during the period of restrictions which will
follow. Perpetrator services, which work to prevent
incidents of domestic abuse from happening, also remain
open and will continue to provide support.
“You will not be in trouble if you need to leave your home
to seek help at any time, and specialist services are open
and operating, refuges will take referrals, and support is
available to help you.
“I want to emphasise this – if you are in danger or need to
leave your home to escape domestic abuse, you should do so
– you will not be in trouble. You can travel wherever
necessary, and specialist services can help find you
suitable emergency accommodation and support.
“Police forces right across Wales are responding to
domestic abuse and sexual violence callouts. If is not safe
for victims to speak, police will respond to a silent 999
call – dial 999, followed by 55 when the operator answers
to indicate that you can’t talk, but need help.
“The Live Fear Free helpline is open 24 hours a day, every
day, including Christmas and the New Year, for support and
advice. Home shouldn’t be a place of fear. Support is
available. You are not alone.”
Police and Crime Commissioner for South Wales, , said:
“We know that incidents of domestic violence and abuse
increase at times when families and couples spend more time
together at home.
"So, while many of us are looking forward to the
opportunity to form a ‘Christmas bubble’ with loved ones,
even if we can only catch up virtually, for others the
festive period means spending even more time with a partner
or family member who causes them harm.
“We want you to know that the Police and Welsh Government
are united in tackling the problem vigorously, even during
the holiday period and even during the Pandemic.”
South Wales Police Chief Constable, Jeremy Vaughan, said:
“If you are hurting your partner, child or another family
member, I urge you to get help to change your behaviour
because we will not tolerate domestic violence and abuse.
“Protecting vulnerable people is our number one priority,
and despite the challenges the coronavirus crisis has
presented, I want to reassure our communities that we are
still responding to incidents, we are still arresting
abusers, and we are still charging abusers.
“We know it can be difficult to talk about what is
happening behind closed doors, however if you can take that
first step and contact the police or the Live Fear Free
service, we will work with you to keep you safe.”
The Police and Crime Commissioner for Gwent, , said:
“Sadly we know that Christmas can be a time of fear for
many.
“This year we are particularly concerned as we know that
cases of rape, sexual violence and domestic abuse have
increased during the Covid-19 pandemic.
“If you are experiencing abuse, or suspect someone you know
is being abused, then please don’t suffer in silence; help
is available. I would urge you to call the Live Fear Free
helpline, and always call 999 in an emergency.”
Notes for editors
The Home Shouldn’t be a
place of Fear campaign will re-launch on 28 December,
with messages across TV (ITV, Sky Smart Ad, S4C), Radio and
digital advertising, reminding victims and bystanders that
support services and the Live Fear Free helpline are still
operating.
How to get help
If you or someone you know is suffering physical or emotional
abuse at the hands of a partner, here are some ways to get
help:
- If you can’t talk in safety, but you need help
immediately, police forces across Wales will respond to a
silent 999 call – dial 999, followed by 55 when the operator
answers to indicate that you can’t talk, but need help.
- Signs that abuse is happening behind closed doors could
include repeated shouting, sounds of things being hit,
smashed or broken, and continuing crying or pleas to stop.
Victims might have cuts or bruises, look confused or
dishevelled, or be anxious or withdrawn.
- If you suspect that someone, whether child or adult, is
suffering abuse, harm, neglect, harassment, control, physical
violence or emotional abuse at the hands of a family member
or partner, please call 999 if it’s an emergency, or seek
support on Welsh Government’s ‘reporting suspected abuse,
harm or neglect site’ here - https://gov.wales/reporting-suspected-abuse-harm-or-neglect-safeguarding.
- If you are worried about your own behaviour, you can get
non-judgemental help by contacting the Respect Phoneline:
https://respectphoneline.org.uk/
Tel: 0808 8024 040
For domestic violence or sexual violence support,
please contact:
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The Live Fear Free helpline is a free 24/7
service for all victims and survivors of domestic abuse and
sexual violence and those close to them, including family,
friends and colleagues. It remains open and offering a full
service throughout Christmas and the lockdown which
follows.
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Police – 999 in an emergency
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Silent 999: If you can’t talk in safety,
but you need help immediately, police forces across Wales
will respond to a silent 999 call – dial 999, and when the
operator answers, dial 55 to indicate that you can’t talk,
but need help.
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Welsh Government’s ‘Reporting suspected abuse, harm
or neglect site’ here
- The NSPCC can be contacted by phone at:
0808 800 5000 or at nspcc.org.uk.
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Meic is a confidential, anonymous, and
free bilingual helpline service, providing advice,
information and support for children and young people up to
the age of 25 in Wales. Lines are open 8am - midnight, 7
days a week, by phone 080880 25456, SMS text 84001 and
instant messaging https://www.meiccymru.org
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Childline is a free, private and
confidential service to anyone under 19 in the UK where
they can talk about anything. https://www.childline.org.uk/
where support is also delivered via webpages and message
boards.
The Childline number is: 0800 1111.
You can speak to a real person and get the support you need,
or chat about any concerns you may be having.
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The Safer Wales Dyn project provides
support to Heterosexual, Gay, Bisexual and Trans men who
are experiencing Domestic abuse from a partner.
http://www.dynwales.org/contact-dyn-project/?contentID=577
Tel: 0808 801 0321
- The Bawso helpline offers support to
BAME victims and survivors affected by domestic abuse and all
forms of violence against women.
https://bawso.org.uk/contact-us/
Tel: 08007318147
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